While Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Plaxo connect us with friends and colleagues and provide a platform for alumni groups, civic issues, fan clubs and the classroom, and Moms' pleas for paper cups and markers, social media trickles into an already full stream of email and information overload. Who isn't struggling to stay afloat?It takes time and lucidity to craft a witty Evite acceptance, update your Facebook profile or write a colleague a proper recommendation on LinkedIn. This "Social Daze Shun," (my term for inundation of social media) combined with work and personal email inboxes that often have up to 2,500 emails (with 800 unread) builds stress and lessens productivity.To help, try some of my favorite email and social management tips: